I want to share these with you, so you know to run if anyone ever tries to offer you this or similar advice.Anyone who would offer you this advice is not looking out for your best interest.1. Unless you are literally a gold-digger, this is not good advice because it will make you sound like a gold-digger.Whatever you do, for the love of Pete's hairy beanbag, don't gawp at her while she's splayed out like a snuff star doing hamstring curls.
Likewise, making him take you to an expensive restaurant and pay for a cab to take you home so you can drink is arrogant to say the least.2. Dumping him on the first date because he does not show up with flowers is obnoxious.
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“You know,” they’ll muse, “I met [insert spouse’s name] when I least expected it. ” There is certainly a lot of merit in not acting out of desperation and taking seasons off from dating.
However, taken to the extreme, this reverse psychology approach (of sticking your head in the sand yet expecting to find a serious relationship) is an oxymoron at best.