You remember your first kiss with this handsome hunk the whole ride home. Read these signs to determine if it was love at first site or if your upcoming date is adding you to his harem.1. Unless he's truly sick or has a business meeting out of town, your dream date may have been caught up in the moment when he double-booked you.You think about what's on your calendar in the next week and how you can rearrange your schedule to fit him in, even before your first date. If you hear excuses like he has the flu, or a relative came in from out of town at the last minute, if he's really that into you, he won't break your very important first date.2. If you become the Wednesday night girl, you should be wondering what he is doing on a Friday or Saturday night. They become instantly "the one for you" and more often than not, if they do get to the phone call stage ~ it's a cell phone or a blocked number. They are horrific IM chatters because they multi-chat and have more than one you the brain.
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. Use your own judgment about "separated" men, that seems to be a hot topic here. However, there are a lot of sincere guys here, also. I must say up front i seem to be very ignorant to picking up on it.
You call your BFF with great enthusiasm about the new guy you just met. After a few dates, it's only appropriate to be on his calendar during a weekend evening.3. After a few months of dating and several conversations for upcoming events with his friends and family that he never follows up on, don't believe he is going alone.
There's probably someone else that is higher on the totem pole in his arms. Sure, it sounds logical, but he'll keep you hanging with promises of scheduling another event to take you to, to make sure he can still get you into bed.4. If your dream date calls you the day of, or even the day before a date to get together, don't get excited and change your plans with your girlfriends to accommodate him. If you are sleeping with a guy who doesn't call you his girlfriend, significant other, or other pet name in public, you're just a friend with benefits. It's time to get out of your dream world and find a man who wants to call you his girl.7. When your guy is MIA, especially on the weekends, and reappears with no explanation as if nothing is wrong, don't give him the benefit of the doubt. He's a professional juggler and quite simply, a player.8. While you might think it's sexy to have a little mystery in the relationship, when he's consistently vague about his whereabouts, he's hiding something. The classic player is likely to be having sex with multiple partners without protection. Don't get caught up in a moment of passion that you might regret.
Are they really talking dirty, or are you just reading things into their statements that aren’t there? Often times light sexual banter is a way for people to test their prospective dates interest in sex. So if you get a decent vibe from them otherwise, then ignore their comments and change the subject.
If their commentary gets graphic, then that’s your cue to leave.